When families explore the idea of boarding school at the middle school level, questions–and, sometimes, eyebrows–are raised. It’s an emotional decision, charged with concerns about a boy’s academic experience and personal support. If you’re a parent in this position, there are a few factors you’ll want to consider, and you will quickly find there are plenty of benefits to boarding school for your child.
It's true: A middle-school-aged boy is rarely quiet. Rambunctious and energetic, he’s tak
Most junior boarding schools offer several options for weekend activities (and some offer more than 20!). The important thing for families to weigh here is not so much the fact that activities are available (to keep boys occupied, energized, and entertained), but that
A school’s viewbook, website, videos, and photos are necessities. They give families a first impression and sketch the elements that make up the boarding school experience. But they’re only a start. (And, let’s admit it: no school is going to show photos of that science lab that needs updating, the dorm that needs renovating, or the boy who just learned that he flunked his science exam.) The campus visit is an integral part of the boarding school decision-making process, and often sways families one way or the other. They see firsthand the character of the boys. Engaged, excited, and polite young men speak volumes about a school’s approach, academics, and community. It’s great to observe classes and see teachers in action–not just to assess the caliber of the academics, but to watch how they engage each and every student. It’s helpful to meet actual students who welcome you and hold the door open–but it’s invaluable to watch them when they think you aren’t looking. If you’re considering a junior boarding school, give it a test drive: visit, observe a class, stay the night. You’ll likely learn all you need to know to make your decision. After all, you can’t shake hands with a viewbook.
For more information on junior boarding school, and how your middle schooler can benefit the most from their experience, please contact The Fessenden School and find out how we can provide clarity for your boarding school decision.