Parents of preschool-aged children are subject to daily, hourly, and even minute-by-minute questions. Queries about what things are and how they work can be heard from car seats, at the dinner table, and in the morning, afternoon, evening, and night.
Fessenden Kindergarten teacher Greta Sanborn notes the importance of teaching children how to question as early as pre-K. She says, “We want our students to leave our school as critical thinkers and explorers, and we want them to be excited about learning.” She believes this enables children to go through their educational careers—and their lives—without taking things at face value.
In the book “Early Education: Three, Four, and Five Year Olds Go to School,” co-written by C. Seefeldt and B.A. Wasik, preschool-aged children begin to ask deeper questions that indicate an interest in learning about the world around them. The authors posit that these questions “represent the evolution of their thinking and attempts to make concepts fit into what they know about the world.”
Research indicates that there is a method to their madness when children ask questions. Educational experts believe that kids have an underlying goal when showing curiosity, and it’s about seeking information.
According to a 2008 study titled “Children’s questions: a mechanism for cognitive development,” children ask many information-seeking questions because they want to learn; it’s not about seeking attention. The study notes that “parents give answers to these questions, but when they do not, the children persist in asking for the information, suggesting that the goal of this behavior is to recruit needed information.”
So the next time you hear that persistent little voice coming from the backseat, you can rest assured that your child is seeking answers and you have the power to help them see the value in inquiry.
What questions does your Pre-K child ask and how do you answer them? Tell us in the comments section below!